Mayci Neeley of ‘Secret Lives of Mormon Wives’ Releases Debut Book ‘Told You So’
Mayci Neeley is set to unveil her debut memoir, “Told You So,” published by Simon & Schuster. This book, releasing on a Tuesday, captures her personal journey and reflections.
From Reality TV to Memoir
Known for her appearance on “The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives,” Neeley offers readers insight into her life as one of the devout members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Despite the label of “saint,” she challenges that identity. “I wouldn’t consider myself, like, a saint, by any means,” she remarked.
In “Told You So,” Neeley engages with another writer to curate her story, drawing from her past journal entries and blog content. This approach brings forth an authentic narrative about her upbringing and experiences.
Academic Journey at BYU
Her memoir chronicles her life from high school in California to her time at Brigham Young University (BYU) from 2013 to 2018. Throughout her college years, she navigated party culture as well as the expectations placed on her by her faith.
For instance, in one memorable moment, she reflects on a “Mormon dance party.” Even at 15, she felt restricted by community norms about dating and urges to conform. “I’m not a rule-breaker, but I’ve always been intrigued by things that are off-limits,” she shares.
Exploring Faith and Challenges
Neeley’s memoir delves into the complexities of faith, scandal, and personal tragedy. She candidly addresses difficult subjects, including her relationship with the father of her son, Arik Mack, who tragically lost his life in a car crash in 2015 while she was pregnant.
This poignant story is brought to life in “Told You So” and also features in Season 2 of her reality series. During an emotional visit to the crash site, she honors Mack’s memory with flowers and a heartfelt letter, showcasing her journey through grief.
Reflections on Personal Struggles
The memoir does not shy away from darker experiences, such as cheating, mental health struggles, and conversations with church leaders that tested her beliefs. However, Neeley credits her parents for instilling resilience in her character. “I was just raised to have thick skin and not let people’s words affect me,” she states.
After returning home during her pregnancy, she found compassion and support from BYU staff, reinforcing her commitment to her faith despite past turmoil.
Titled for a Reason
Reflecting on the title, “Told You So,” Neeley explained, “It serves as a lesson to myself.” Her journey is marked by moments of self-reflection and recognition of past lessons learned.
Upcoming Book Tour
To promote “Told You So,” Neeley will conclude her four-stop book tour in Salt Lake City. The event, hosted by The King’s English at the Utah Museum of Fine Arts, is scheduled for Friday at 7 p.m. She will engage in conversation with co-star Jessi Draper Ngatikaura. Tickets are available for purchase on Eventbrite.
